TopherM @ Fri Jul 14, 2006 2:23 pm wrote:
As for the point you directly attacked me on, modern R&B is CERTAINLY the direct decendent of older R&B, including motown. Don't be ignorant. If you just want to argue this point based on some warm and fuzzy memories of motown that you just don't get from modern R&B, then fine, but to say they are not in the same family tree is stupid. 
Sorry.  What I said was not meant as an attack on you or anybody else.  I won't argue the fact that what is now categorzied as R&B is a descendant of what I know as R&B.  The point I had hoped to make is that they are not the same and putting a common label on both confuses me.
Yes I probably am ignorant.  I don't have a problem with that in that the definition of ignorant is "Showing or arising from a lack of education or knowledge."  Call it a gap in my learning or just chalk it up to being a crochety old fart.  I don't have a problem with that.
It's just a personal preference with me.  If I'm going to hang a label on something, regardless of whether you want to call it genre or style, I would like it to be meaningful to me.  I have always disliked the practice of co-opting words or phrases and then assigning different meanings to them based on some whim.  So to me R&B has a particular meaning.  Does it matter much whether it's because I get a warm and fuzzy feeling from it? I think not?  
But please don't be offended.  I have the same feelings about "gay", "native american" and a lot of other words or phrases.  I am a native american.  I was born here, what other country would I call my native land?  Some of my ancestors were born in Sweden.  Others were born in Ireland.  They all emigrated to the US before I was born.  They were not native americans.  I am.  And sometimes I feel gay in the sense that I am cheerful and lighthearted.  But I that has nothing to do with my sexual orientation (straight, thank-you).
Anyway, I didn't mean for anyone to see what I wrote as a serious indictment of the various methods of assgining labels to different kinds of music (I've given up using the word genre-it feels effete to me and I'm not comfortable with it).  That was why I put smiles  LOL  after some of the things I said.  
I am always interested in the ways that words are used and I am endlessly fascinated by how words used to communicate a thought often convey a different message than the write intended.  
I recognize that my sarcasm is not always funny to everyone.  If I've offended you or if you felt that I called your knowledge in this area into question I am truly sorry.  I readily admit that your knowledge is superior to mine.  And I don't mind learning from you.  I found what you had to say to be very instructive.
I believe though, that I'm going to reserve my right to my opinion, wrong though it may be.
Larry
Larry