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To me, everyone who sub's is really terrific
Tasteful coaching requires both the individual being coached, and the coach to realize few are "really terrific" in any artistic genre in terms of their skill level. Coaching SHOULD ALWAYS encourage, however it is requisite that all parties involved are receptive to it. Otherwise, what is wrong with leaving a neutral but positive comment such as-
"Enjoyed my listen"
Personally, I would never wish to encourage a person (asking and wishing for honesty), to continue making mistakes that impede them from improving, IMHO that is very distasteful treatment of a person that requires the ears of the more skilled, or just the objective listener.
encouragement does not require "coaching" unless a person assumes the roll of a coach meaning a singer is looking to be coached