Had a gig Saturday night at a country club - corporate party = usually boring.  Broke out my karaoke and the party rocked.
However, I was attempting using an employee to DJ for the 1st time ever in case I ever needed a backup.  This guy showed up 1 hour late to load the equipment. Was in a T-shirt when the guests arrived like it was no big deal (I pay for a tux).  Then he left the stage 3 times during a 3 hour show and songs ended with no one on stage= dead sound.  When confronted about him getting paid to do this- his reply was "So- you're getting paid too".   
Needless to say I let the night finish out because I did not want to make a scene at the party - but I won't be using this guy again.  
Does anyone have a suggestion on employees and using a set of standards - such as not leaving the stage, not helping yourself to the buffett, no flirting etc?...  Or am I taking this all to seriously?
I'm a bit of a perfectionist.
Thanks for helping me keep this professional and profitable 
