Well, while I really find this funny too, I just tell everyone who asks the same thing you hear in Vegas.."What happens at the bar, stays at the bar" When someone steps outside their marriage, I don't pass judgment on them, because we don't know what they are going thru in their lives. Infidelity is a symptom of something wrong, it's not the reason itself.

Let them work out their own problems, or end their marriages themselves, don't let us be a catalyst for them. I know you didn't know anything about the situation, you just simply were stating "found a ring, come identify it"

Situations like this happen all the time, and it's simply sad that people don't recognize where the real problem lies.

Ok, me getting off my soap box now.

I have to disagree. Some people are just jerks who can't keep it in their pants. And jerkettes, for that matter. Screwing around on your partner and then going home to sleep with them without telling where you have been? That is low. You don't know what diseases you might bring home.

I agree with that to a point. But let us not pass judgment, we are really only passing judgment upon ourselves when we do.

Yeah, Mcky57, we can help it. It is the CHOICE of each of us whether we believe or disbelieve what has been said to us. We also have the choice as humans to take a higher stand and NOT pass judgment.

Nobody truly knows what is going on in another persons life, none of us!! Even by "walking a mile" in his/hers shoes,,, we have only walked that mile, not the entire journey. It's not for us on this earth to pass judgment on another person, nor it is in return. Call it a religious or personal belief, but that's how I feel. We make choices in our lives that either work, or don't work for us, Not that they are right or wrong, its just simply do they work or not.

Now, in this particular case, nobody had said that judgment was given, it was simply a story that I find humorous at the most, nothing more, nothing less. The person in question couldn't care less about how we feel either.

Well, this forum isn't the place to discuss matters of morality. But, I have to sit here and smile at you guys and tell you something that will make you guys raise an eyebrow or two. It will make you wonder what I have been smoking!!! But, I'm not going to disagree or agree with what you are saying. I AM going to tell you this, "there is NO right, there is NO wrong",,,, there is only "does it work for you or not". I know something about life that most people don't, and am willing to share, if you want to know. But this forum is not the place or the time. It doesn't work for me

Ok, now back to the regular scheduled program. I still find the story comical a bit. Just don't be too hasty to pass judgment is all. Peace out yo!

Sounds like something Yoda once said..."Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try."

To relate to the song that was mentioned above, "Carrie Underwood's - Before He Cheats"... If you (meaning, anyone) has seen this video and it wasn't just a video, but a real life situation, the girl in question would be going to jail!!! And the dude would have an excuse to tell his wife. Thats what I tell my audience when someone sings this song,,, "She is going to jail,,,,,,, there are three things you don't mess with that a guy has,,, one is his power tools, second is his fishing pole,, and third is his pickup truck"... you mess with any one of those things and there IS GOING TO be problems,, haha,,,, and I mean this jokingly of course.

God! How I hate that song. I made a song parody of it called: BEFORE SHE NAGS. I posted it on the Singers Showcase a couple years back when I made it. I get plenty of laughs whenever I take it out of the moth balls and sing it at karaoke.