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johnny reverb
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:17 pm |
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If the non-spenders are hot chicks.....eez okay......they'll bring in more paying customers than any karaoke or band...... .....ahhh! eat, drink, sing and sniff...
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ericlater
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:18 pm |
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Lonman
Excuse my saying so, but you're just begging the quesition. I'm not the one who originally provided the noted reasons why people don't drink; I'm just repeating them.
Next, "drinking" has become the "coin of realm" because it seems no one outside of Florida is aware of place to go for Karaoke other than bars. It's as if everyone who responds only frequents bars and those bars have no food. Here we have restaurants that offer karaoke and folks buy food as well!
Now in which post ever did I suggest that buying alcohol was the only way to add to the profits of the bar. And lastly, the people who most perturb me are "Loners" that sing karaoke and I have never specifically mentioned anything about any other non-spending type of customer.
So I don't want to hear about the level of their 'friends' participation. As someone else already noted, a freeloading, self-centered, useless patron doing karaoke is just that - regardless of what excuses you or anyone wants to make for them.
And in my neck of the woods a night of karaoke might have no more than thirty patrons and a dozen singers; perhaps 20 patrons with 9 singers. If you can make economic sense out of that for having karaoke, especially if three or four singers spend nothing, go right ahead!
And I don't know whose problem such people are, but I sense that more and more of you, especially with the current economic factore, will join my beating drum!
So, Lon, you and anyone else can try to come up with the mitigating reasons for deadbeats. If I call them a deadbeat it is because they take and don't give. And when one karaoke place that they frequent closes, they're the first ones at the next place. And so on and so on. I've already reported on how many karaoke show are gone here. Regardless of the dynamics involved with their decline they are gone because of financial reasons. So, I guess there's something behind my concerns? And, surely, karaoke deadbeats isn't/wasn't the primary cause - BUT THEY DON'T HELP!
I'm sure that even in those parts of the country where karaoke is more vibrant you too will soon see owners "pinching pennies". Didn't you and Bill H speak about declining attendance on particular occasions of late. Well imagine if all of the nine singers you had one night decided not to spend any money? I mean what could make them spend money if they don't want to? Of course, you wouldn't have a show for very long if that were the nightly experience - 9 non-spending singers!
And, out of curiousity, what is your point about "Loitering". I was responding to Mcky57 who wanted to chastise and report a bar owner who might be upset at someone who comes into his establishment and doesn't spend money. Poeple don't have a RIGHT to do that and the owner doesn't have to serve anyone he doesn't want to. Is that all too subtle?
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Dr Fred
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:20 pm |
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A few of my "water"/soda drinkers are among those that have had serious drinking problems, but managed to "stop" (or at least slow down) for a bit. But they had developed the friends/interest in the bar scene (and that is where their friends are).
Those people are sometimes a bonus to the bar because they can often attract some of their old friends who are big spenders on booze.
Now I can admire a few of them that needed to cut down but most of the ones that I know who have attempted to stop drinking but still went out to bars soon returned to their (heavy) drinking in a few months.
On the other hand the loner water drinker is a bit more of a no value asset for the bar.
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karyoker
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:20 pm |
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I guess I live in a different world. The only requirement we have for our singers is that they get on the stage and give it their all. We pack in partying people and make a profit. I have never seen a bar with a bunch of sober people in my life and I have been in bars all over the world. If the bag lady or a homeless person ( I have had this happen) wanted to sing I would hand them a mic. You welcome patrons you do not choose your clientèle they choose you. I have sang in clubs drinking nothing but cokes and had the cocktail waitress hug me when I left. These arguments are naive at best and show immaturity or mis-management practices of a failing bar.
Karaoke at times is not the main attraction. The waitress with cleavage or atmosphere plays an integral part. All who participate whether they are spending money or not contributes to success. If you spend more do you get to sing more? I will argue this until the cows come home for I have managed VFW clubs and I know what I am talking about. Twenty drunk singers no longer makes a show. That novelty is gone. It takes professional sober entertainment. Whether they drink water or orange juice. I do not want my singers drunk...!
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DannyG2006
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:21 pm |
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ericlater @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:06 pm wrote: Airgtar
I am going to try to respond as concisely and comprehensibly as possible to your question. Before doing so, let me say that there have been many debates on this forum regarding this matter.
You, as many before have, mentioned the profit (percentage) made on soda. Understand that absolutely no one is adverse to someone not drinking alcohol beverages at karaoke shows; the problem is when a patron is not spending enough MONEY to add to the establishment’s profit. If a bar, in fact, charges $2.50 for every glass of soda, that’s the same as selling a draft beer. However, from what I have experienced in many different geographic area, the pricing policy of bars rarely considers that someone would show up to be entertained and not spend on food and/or alcoholic beverages. As a result, it the exception when a place charges $2.50 for every glass of soda; most give free re-fills!
Others who have reflected thoughts similar to yours have made some of the following comments, which I consider to be virtual excuses for non-spenders: - Designated driver - Comes with companions - Good, entertaining singer - Gets the karaoke show started as an early arriving and much enjoyed singer - Is recovering alcoholic - Can’t drink due to a medical condition
Some, furthermore, find it justifiabe to entirely excuse the behavior of non-spenders when a bar doesn’t serve food and the non-spender has a “legitimate” reason for not drinking! While I don’t question the “legitimacy” of said reasons, I must wonder:
- What is a person, other than a designated driver, doing in a bar who doesn't drink? - Does the same person who doesn't drink, frequent the bar when it doesn’t offer karaoke? - Why is my wait in the rotation, as a paying (contributing) customer of the bar, lengthened by those who do not spend (contribute to the shows success)? - Why is it that the people who don't spend money in bars are the very same people who don't spend money when they go somewhere that offers food?
Some have said that just because an individual doesn’t drink, it doesn’t mean that his/her companions don’t drink. That’s true and I’ve always recognized that possibility. Furthermore I don't believe I or anyone else has ever suggested that the spending habits of people who come in groups is a concern. However, please don’t tell me how that people that don’t drink come in groups; some do, some don’t!
I have described scenarios in past postings in which non-spenders come alone to karaoke shows where they are REGULARS. I explained how common it is for a Florida venue to have very few regular singers (a dozen or LESS). And, furthermore, the attendance at most of these venues is comprised mostly of those who are there to partake in the karaoke. And, obviously, a non-spending “loner” sticks out like a sore thumb under such circumstances! And we have plenty who do just that - karaoke “loners’ who spend virtually nothing, nada, zilch! Some even “show hop” to minimize the obvious nature of what they are doing while they simultaneously maximize their turns at singing!
I’m done. Now I wait for the flaming from the same “know it alls” who have told me in past threads that what I have described hasn’t been part of their experience(s) after thirty years “in the business”. I, of course, can’t help it if they have had a “sheltered” existence with only positive and profitable experiences with karaoke. Venues here that offered karaoke fail regularly.
In closing, I just don’t understand how it has come to pass that karaoke singers, many of whom are fanatical about karaoke, don’t see a need to spend money that supports the venues where they go to sing? And why, once again, are there those of you who excuse such bad behavior?
MOst of the time the only way to sing karaoke in public is at a bar. That said I qualify for four of your reasons as I am considered a real good singer (from outside sorces) , I arive early and help start the show as much as I can and because of medication I take on a regular basis I CANNOT drink and having an alcoholic in my family backgound (biological father) I don't want to take the chance that I might become one snce it does follow the genes. Grnted I believe it's been over two months since I have went to a bar for karaoke (not counting my shows).
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mckyj57
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:29 pm |
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ericlater @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:46 pm wrote: Karyoker, Quote: mckyj57 Re: water Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:38 pm How about don't drink because it's poison? You think wanting to drive sane and sober is a "virtual excuse"? Or not wanting to die? Because that's what alcoholics do when they drink, you know. Those are, in fact, very real concerns with which I would never argue! Are you suggesting that I have stated that people must drink alcohol? No matter how you may try to put words in my mouth as you love to do; I'll state very clearly: I'M AN NOT ENCOURAGING ANYONE TO DRINK ALCOHOL!!! Rather, I am encouraging those who don't drink alcohol to stay out of bars; especially if they're recovering alcoholics. But I still don't understand why anyone would go to a bar if the bar does not serve food and the patron doesn't drink? Here, I have your solution. Just post a sign on the door -- "Non-drinkers not allowed". I will obey that sign, no problem. At least as long as they have a liquor license. Quote: Quote: mckyj57 Re: water Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:38 pm "Virtual excuses"? Ridiculous. Unbelievable. If it were a bar owner stating such opinions, I would ask the liquor control board to yank their alcohol license. You would? Actually, with no reason to be at a bar you have no right to be there. And attending karaoke is not reason enough, if you do not drink! And any bar owner would be well within his/her rights to ask you to leave because those who hang out in but do not spend money are LEGALLY loitering! If they want to eject me, fine. Let them do so. But it is a public place. I can tell you that if a bar did offer an event like karaoke, sold soft drinks, and ejected people for the stated reason of them not drinking , they would lose their liquor license so fast it would make your head spin. Because the recommended amount of alcohol for a person is one or two drinks a day. Sure we all know that bars make their real money by helping alcoholics kill themselves by drinking a dozen (or two). But thank goodness most people drink just one drink or two. Quote: Again, if you don't want to drink- DON'T! But don't go to a bar NOT TO DRINK. Stay home and don't drink! Or go somewhere for karaoke where you CAN spend money without drinking!
And where is that, pray tell? Quote: Without any further explanation having ever been provided to me in this regard, I can only come to the conclusion that some people who have a desire to participate in Karaoke believe it is a right that they have and they should be able to go wherever they want in order to participate. Well ---it is not a god-given right. If you can't/won't spend money in a bar - stay away from the bar! If you can't find anywhere else to sing == stay home! Or perhaps you could go to the bar owner and offer him $10 cash in light of the fact that you're not providing any other meaningful source of revenue to the establishment!
It is a public place of business. You insinuate there is something unethical and wrong about wanting to sing karaoke without drinking. That is simply wrong. Your callous indifference to the rights and desires of people who -- sanely -- don't drink is appalling. You are essentially telling people that if they want to sing karoake, they have to do something which at the very least is deleterious to their health and at the worst is disastrous.
It is especially ridiculous that when you are insane to believe that you can expect people to modify their behavior based on what is "right". Especially when it is only "right" in the opinion of a very small minority, mostly you.
People like me spend money because we want karaoke to continue. I like to spend it at places that don't have huge rotations, because I like to sing. If I spend more money, the karaoke stays on longer with a short rotation. Of course I have the money. If I were poor, you can bet I wouldn't be spending freely. I might spend a bit at one place, but if a place looked like the karaoke was doomed anyway I wouldn't be squandering my hard-earned scratch because it was "right".
If the bar can't protect themselves from going under by instituting policies that allow them to make money, they should go out of business. If they do, I lose karaoke. Too bad. They could have managed it to be different, but they didn't. Big deal. It will open up the market for a place -- and karaoke host -- that is intelligent and savvy enough to make money.
Finally, from a business standpoint for a karaoke host your attitude is not a money-maker.You want everyone to attend the karaoke and spend money, not just drunks. Apparently you didn't know that 30% of the country doesn't drink at all, and not only that, they probably control more than their fair share of disposable income because they don't spend it on alcohol and tobacco. I go to lots of places that do well with karaoke, and a big part of the equation is the non-drinkers. Those places offer food, so maybe the real question is -- why would a bar that doesn't serve food offer karaoke? To attract alcoholics looking to kill themselves, perhaps?
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mckyj57
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:38 pm |
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BruceFan4Life @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:33 pm wrote: There will always be people who try to take advantage of any situation. Some people take advantage by going out to a karaoke bar and they don't spend any money. Some people go to karaoke and try to recruit as many duet partners as they can to maximize their song total for the evening. I don't differentiate between the two. I'm not talking about the person who sings one duet in the course of an evening. I'm talking about the guy/girl who sings 4 or 5 times in every rotation but never seems to sing a duet when it is HIS/HER turn. It's also not a situation where the guy/girl is such a great singer that everyone comes running to him/her begging him/her to sing with them. I'm talking about the guy/girl who works the bar asking other people to put in a song so they can sing it together.
No one sings four of five times in a rotation for me. Twice, at most. And that only once if it is a large rotation (more than 10 singers). You get the same amount of stage time as anyone else. If someone needs help, then you are going to have to give up your solo.
Now if you don't do solos and only come up in groups, you can sing twice or even possibly more in a rotation.
I try to remember if they bring their duet partners, and those partners are drinking, there is benefit for the tab and the crowd. But long term you can't support that, because no one comes to see "The Katie Show" (the name of a particularly egregious "duet" offender I saw).
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ericlater
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:40 pm |
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Well,
All and any of you are welcome to come to So Florida, as Mcky57 does, and you'll be introduced to a variety of places where you can sing karaoke, spend money and never touch a drink. You can start by checking out [url]Floridakaraoke.com[/url] and from the left panel select "Broward" county. Many of the listings may seem like bars only, but most have food.
And while apparenty none of you can relate to such an environment as we have here. don't put "words into my mouth" - I never said anyone needed to consume alcohol; rather that they must spend money. Most of you assumed since you only go to bars for karaoke that I was chastising people to drink. And yes, I did reject the reasons people give not to drink - however I did so stating that they are nothing more that excuses to go into bars and not spend money!
Many of you are apparenlty self-counscious about how little you actually spend and rise up to defend yourselves. Now, if there is no other way to sing karaoke in your area than going into a bar, and the bar offers no opportunity to spend any serious money other than on alcohol, singing karaoke is not your god-given right. Make way at the venue for those who come and want to spend their money!
If you can't find anywhere to both sing and spend money:
move to florida
or stay home
And, actually, I don't believe that there isn't a place anywhere in the country, ANYWHERE, that people can't go to enjoy karaoke and spend money in doing so. And I don't believe the only places to do Karaoke outside of Florida is in bars!!!
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mckyj57
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:52 pm |
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ericlater @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 6:40 pm wrote: Many of you are apparenlty self-counscious about how little you actually spend and rise up to defend yourselves.
Now you are desperate. I spend plenty of money, and people who know me here know that is true. To insinuate that we hold our beliefs because of this "misbehavior" is what is called an ad-hominem attack, and when you make one you have generally lost the argument.
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ericlater
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:54 pm |
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I also feel compeled to add, so I don't appear to have narrow points of reference:
I sing karaoke regularly in Las Vegas in places that serve food.
During a trip to the midwest in May, a fellow member here, Laura, invited my wife and I to join her in St Louis for karaoke. We went to two places. We ate at the first one. I believe, that the second place had a menu, as well.
So again I never have never urged anyone to do any thing more than spend money when you go out for karaoke. NO one is entitle to a free ride and what makes anyone think they are?
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Lonman
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:55 pm |
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ericlater @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:18 pm wrote: Lonman
Excuse my saying so, but you're just begging the quesition. I'm not the one who originally provided the noted reasons why people don't drink; I'm just repeating them.
Next, "drinking" has become the "coin of realm" because it seems no one outside of Florida is aware of place to go for Karaoke other than bars. It's as if everyone who responds only frequents bars and those bars have no food. Here we have restaurants that offer karaoke and folks buy food as well!
Now in which post ever did I suggest that buying alcohol was the only way to add to the profits of the bar. And lastly, the people who most perturb me are "Loners" that sing karaoke and I have never specifically mentioned anything about any other non-spending type of customer. So if I go into a karaoke bar because I enjoy to sing karaoke, enjoy listening to others sing, even if I am by myself (a loner) buying my sodas, I am going to perturb you? So be it! Be perturbed. I am supporting the show, maybe not to your level of 'money spent' worthiness, but whatever. I could care less if YOU have a problem with it, it's up to the bar to decide that. Quote: So I don't want to hear about the level of their 'friends' participation. As someone else already noted, a freeloading, self-centered, useless patron doing karaoke is just that - regardless of what excuses you or anyone wants to make for them. So a non-drinking (but spending on soda) singer in a group of drinking singers is useless & should not be out with their friends? PURE IDIOCY! What about the group of 5-6 alcohol drinkers that all put in $1 per person per round to buy a pitcher between them to get drunk off of 3 maybe 4 pitchers between them (I know places that pitchers are about $5-6)? These aren't really any better as the ones that buy 2 or 3 or 4 sodas @ $1 each. So maybe we should say if you aren't spending more than a certain amount per hour, then you should also be somewhere else....GET A CLUE! Quote: And in my neck of the woods a night of karaoke might have no more than thirty patrons and a dozen singers; perhaps 20 patrons with 9 singers. If you can make economic sense out of that for having karaoke, especially if three or four singers spend nothing, go right ahead! 20 patrons with 9 singers - and 3 or 4 don't spend anything, well again that's the bars fault for allowing them to loiter. If they are buying soda, then they are no longer NON spenders. So what's the arguement? Quote: And I don't know whose problem such people are, but I sense that more and more of you, especially with the current economic factore, will join my beating drum! Maybe, maybe not! We'll have to see what happens now! Quote: So, Lon, you and anyone else can try to come up with the mitigating reasons for deadbeats. If I call them a deadbeat it is because they take and don't give. And when one karaoke place that they frequent closes, they're the first ones at the next place. And so on and so on. I've already reported on how many karaoke show are gone here. Regardless of the dynamics involved with their decline they are gone because of financial reasons. So, I guess there's something behind my concerns? And, surely, karaoke deadbeats isn't/wasn't the primary cause - BUT THEY DON'T HELP! Karaoke shows dying around there, could it be the karaoke in those places plain sucked (@$%!)? Or the bars themselves din't know how to run a bar? Yeah blame those 3-4 non-drinkers. I'm sure that even in those parts of the country where karaoke is more vibrant you too will soon see owners "pinching pennies". Didn't you and Bill H speak about declining attendance on particular occasions of late. Well imagine if all of the nine singers you had one night decided not to spend any money? I mean what could make them spend money if they don't want to? Of course, you wouldn't have a show for very long if that were the nightly experience - 9 non-spending singers![/quote] Well yes I said & Bill said that it was a little slower a couple weeks ago, particularaly the week before the elections. And if those 6-9 singers didn't spend any money, the bar would have asked them to leave, but they were spending money. Even if they were just buying sodas all night, they were spending money. It's not up to me to make anyone spend anything, it's the bars! But luckily, that was just a ouple slow weeks, this last week - especially the days after the election, were exceptionally busy with upwards 25 singers average. Last night was a little slow, only had 20 singers, but that was primarily due to the fact that alot of our regulars were at a private surprise B-Day party for one of our most loved regulars. So that took about 10 singers & maybe 10 more non-singers from the night right there. But they did show up around 11:30 or so to finish the party. Quote: And, out of curiousity, what is your point about "Loitering". I was responding to Mcky57 who wanted to chastise and report a bar owner who might be upset at someone who comes into his establishment and doesn't spend money. Poeple don't have a RIGHT to do that and the owner doesn't have to serve anyone he doesn't want to. Is that all too subtle?
Well the way I saw Mickeys psot in response to your ludacris comments about one must drink in a bar & if a bar forced one to drink because they didn't believe the 'virtual' excuses, that he'd report it. You brought up loitering. But again if someone is spending money in a bar - even on soda, they are no longer 'legally loitering' because there is absolutely no law on the books that state one must drink alcohol in a bar.
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:56 pm |
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Dr Fred @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:20 pm wrote: On the other hand the loner water drinker is a bit more of a no value asset for the bar.
But again, this is completely the bars fault for not charging for the water to begin with.
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 3:58 pm |
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I think eric is the just the proverbial......Devils Advocate...... ......don't let him get to you....
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Lonman
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:00 pm |
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karyoker @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:20 pm wrote: I guess I live in a different world. The only requirement we have for our singers is that they get on the stage and give it their all. We pack in partying people and make a profit. I have never seen a bar with a bunch of sober people in my life I don't think i've ever really seen that either Quote: If the bag lady or a homeless person ( I have had this happen) wanted to sing I would hand them a mic. Our bar would not allow this, now if they spent something - at least a soda, then yes. Quote: Karaoke at times is not the main attraction. The waitress with cleavage or atmosphere plays an integral part. All who participate whether they are spending money or not contributes to success. If you spend more do you get to sing more? I will argue this until the cows come home for I have managed VFW clubs and I know what I am talking about. Twenty drunk singers no longer makes a show. That novelty is gone. It takes professional sober entertainment. Whether they drink water or orange juice. I do not want my singers drunk...!
Yeah I go to Hooters for the GREAT FOOD!
Whether you spend $5 or $50, you will still wait your turn in rotation, don't like it, there's the door!
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ericlater
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:00 pm |
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Johnny
I have always spoke of the person who spends NADA ZILCH.
But I ask you, if someone comes into your bar, by himself, is one of say thirty customers who come and go during the evening but this fellow spends four hours taking up one of your stools while singing karaoke, and spends $5.00 while you're paying $200 for a karaoke show. I'll leave it to you to decide if that person is spending enough.
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karyoker
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:01 pm |
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Quote: But again, this is completely the bars fault for not charging for the water to begin with.
If I had to work in a bar that charged for water I would not be there next week. You are joking right?? JFC
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Lonman
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:03 pm |
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DannyG2006 @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:21 pm wrote: MOst of the time the only way to sing karaoke in public is at a bar. That said I qualify for four of your reasons as I am considered a real good singer (from outside sorces) , I arive early and help start the show as much as I can and because of medication I take on a regular basis I CANNOT drink and having an alcoholic in my family backgound (biological father) I don't want to take the chance that I might become one snce it does follow the genes. Grnted I believe it's been over two months since I have went to a bar for karaoke (not counting my shows).
I dunno, sounds like a 'virtual' excuse to me, you should just stay home and never set foot in a bar again ! We don't want your kind at our shows!
Do you spend anything at a the bar? I'm betting you do.
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Lonman
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:15 pm |
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ericlater @ Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:40 pm wrote: Well,
All and any of you are welcome to come to So Florida, as Mcky57 does, and you'll be introduced to a variety of places where you can sing karaoke, spend money and never touch a drink. You can start by checking out [url]Floridakaraoke.com[/url] and from the left panel select "Broward" county. Many of the listings may seem like bars only, but most have food. Great for you, here most karaoke is done in bars. VERY VERY miniscule places that don't serve alcohol and do karaoke. Quote: And while apparenty none of you can relate to such an environment as we have here. don't put "words into my mouth" - I never said anyone needed to consume alcohol; rather that they must spend money. Most of you assumed since you only go to bars for karaoke that I was chastising people to drink. And yes, I did reject the reasons people give not to drink - however I did so stating that they are nothing more that excuses to go into bars and not spend money! BS you are the very one that insinuated that one must drink in order to go to a bar. Your exact quote was Quote: Again, if you don't want to drink- DON'T! But don't go to a bar NOT TO DRINK. Stay home and don't drink! That pretty much tells me if I am going to a bar I had better drink. Never once did you distinguish between drinking and spending money in this manner. I 'don't drink' in a bar but spend money on soda, so now you are backpeddling & saying that since I spend money in a bar not drinking that I am now ok? Quote: Many of you are apparenlty self-counscious about how little you actually spend and rise up to defend yourselves. Now, if there is no other way to sing karaoke in your area than going into a bar, and the bar offers no opportunity to spend any serious money other than on alcohol, singing karaoke is not your god-given right. Make way at the venue for those who come and want to spend their money! Not self conscious at all on the amount I spend, I spend money - period! You are the one that keeps arguing that money spent on soda is 'not spending'. Quote: If you can't find anywhere to both sing and spend money:
move to florida or stay home
And, actually, I don't believe that there isn't a place anywhere in the country, ANYWHERE, that people can't go to enjoy karaoke and spend money in doing so. And I don't believe the only places to do Karaoke outside of Florida is in bars!!!
Sorry don't want to move to Florida, very happy here because I can go to a bar with my friends (or alone if I choose) & not be chastised for spending money on soda all night.
Or yes I can stay home & organize a karaoke party & take my 20-30 singing & non singing friends to my house. I'm sure the bar would love that!
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ericlater
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:18 pm |
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So here's what I've heard, once again.
(Some Say) There's no "law" against someone regularly frequenting an establishment and drinking only soda.
(Eric Says) Well, though it may disappoint some of you, I never said that there is one.
(Some Say) I have reasons for not spending money
(Eric Says) Yes you do. But don't tell me that you have any moral justification for sitting in a bar nursing a soda when there is entertainment. I call it bad behavior, regardless of how you justify it. And to do it all the time rather than on rare circumstancesis even more disgusting!
(Some Say) Owners have no right to be upset with patrons, singers in particular, when they spend no signicant amount of money during a karaoke show as discussed in an earlier post in February last year.
(Eric Says) Owners are too easy on deadbeats because they're concerned about not "ruffling customers' feathers", which just ends up facilitating the very behavior that is contributing to their demise.
And lastly, I still am awaiting for one person to explain to me why they believe they are justified in attending karaoke shows while contributing little if anything to the coffers of the venue. And tipping "large" and being invited back does not help the owner. Oh, and those of you who don't spend enough know exactly who you are just as I know exactly who it is locally that are deadbeats - out solely for themselves and their NEED to sing karaoke and get their "fix"!
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